View Article{"id":303,"date":"2022-07-25T17:55:46","date_gmt":"2022-07-25T17:55:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/?page_id=303"},"modified":"2022-08-07T06:05:17","modified_gmt":"2022-08-07T06:05:17","slug":"coco","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/coco\/","title":{"rendered":"Coco"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"circle d-md-none\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Stereotipuri<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ce stereotipuri sunt \u00een joc?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Gaslighting: \u201cexagereaz\u0103 foarte mult\u201d, \u201ce singura care se pl\u00e2nge\u201d<\/li><li>Minimalizarea abuzului: \u201cne mai juc\u0103m cu limitele\u201d, este doar \u201efeedback negativ\u201d<\/li><li>Blamarea victimei: este vina ei fiindc\u0103 a ales un domeniu profesional dominat de b\u0103rba\u021bi \u0219i nu e poate adapta<\/li><li>Masculinitate toxic\u0103: dac\u0103 lucrezi cu b\u0103ie\u021bii, trebuie s\u0103 accep\u021bi s\u0103 fii tratat\u0103 dup\u0103 normele tradi\u021bionale de socializare masculine<\/li><li>Falsa alegere: singurele alternative sunt s\u0103 lucrezi al\u0103turi de b\u0103rba\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 accep\u021bi abuzurile, sau s\u0103 alegi un domeniu atribuit traditional femeilor (secretariat)<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\/\/\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"square d-md-none\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Impact<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Cum afecteaz\u0103 acest discurs victima violen\u021bei?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Gaslighting-ul<\/strong> este o form\u0103 de abuz emo\u021bional \u0219i manipulare. Coco \u00eencearc\u0103 s-o fac\u0103 pe Dana s\u0103 se \u00eendoiasc\u0103 de propria percep\u021bie \u0219i judecat\u0103 asupra tratamentului pe care \u00eel prime\u0219te. Aceast\u0103 form\u0103 de violen\u021b\u0103 este una dintre cele mai puternice \u0219i care las\u0103 traume profunde, \u021bin\u00e2nd victima \u00eentr-o stare de confuzie care o \u00eempiedic\u0103 s\u0103 ia m\u0103suri pentru a se proteja sau distan\u021ba de mediul abuziv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mai mult, agresorul \u00ee\u0219i legitimeaz\u0103 abuzurile prin faptul c\u0103 al\u021bi colegi nu se pl\u00e2ng. <strong>Victima ajunge astfel s\u0103 se simt\u0103 singur\u0103 \u00eempotriva tuturor<\/strong>, lipsit\u0103 de sus\u021binere, ceea ce amplific\u0103 sentimentele de vinov\u0103\u021bie \u0219i ne\u00eencredere \u00een propria perspectiv\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen situa\u021bii \u00een care este cuv\u00e2ntul victimei \u00eempotriva cuv\u00e2ntului agresorului, <strong>dezechilibrul de putere dintre un b\u0103rbat \u00een pozi\u021bie de conducere \u0219i o femeie t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103 la \u00eenceput de drum<\/strong> va \u00eenclina balan\u021ba \u00een favoarea agresorului.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\/\/\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"circle d-md-none\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Alternativa<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Care ar fi fost reac\u021bia potrivit\u0103?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Coco \u0219i-ar fi putut corecta comportamentul abuziv dac\u0103 ar fi ales:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>S\u0103 o asculte pe Dana \u0219i experien\u021ba ei f\u0103r\u0103 a deveni defensiv<\/li><li>S\u0103 recunoasc\u0103 modul \u00een care comportamentul s\u0103u o afecteaz\u0103 emotional pe Dana<\/li><li>S\u0103 evalueze modul \u00een care se comport\u0103 cu Dana \u00een compara\u021bie de colegii ei b\u0103rba\u021bi, c\u00e2t de echitabil distribuie proiectele \u00eentre ace\u0219tia \u0219i c\u00e2t de obiectiv ofer\u0103 feedback-uri<\/li><li>S\u0103 o \u00eentrebe pe Dana de ce are nevoie pentru a se sim\u021bi \u00een siguran\u021b\u0103 \u0219i motivat\u0103 la munc\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i adapteze stilul de management la nevoile ei<\/li><\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Stereotipuri Ce stereotipuri sunt \u00een joc? Gaslighting: \u201cexagereaz\u0103 foarte mult\u201d, \u201ce singura care se pl\u00e2nge\u201d Minimalizarea abuzului: \u201cne mai juc\u0103m cu limitele\u201d, este doar \u201efeedback negativ\u201d Blamarea victimei: este vina ei fiindc\u0103 a ales un domeniu profesional dominat de b\u0103rba\u021bi \u0219i nu e poate adapta Masculinitate toxic\u0103: dac\u0103 lucrezi cu b\u0103ie\u021bii, trebuie s\u0103 accep\u021bi s\u0103&#8230; <a class=\"view-article\" href=\"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/coco\/\"><\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"template-text.php","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-303","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/303","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=303"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/303\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":410,"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/303\/revisions\/410"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=303"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}