View Article{"id":289,"date":"2022-07-25T16:44:19","date_gmt":"2022-07-25T16:44:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/?page_id=289"},"modified":"2022-08-07T06:08:23","modified_gmt":"2022-08-07T06:08:23","slug":"mama-mariei","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/mama-mariei\/","title":{"rendered":"Mama Mariei"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"circle d-md-none\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Stereotipuri<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ce stereotipuri sunt \u00een joc?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Invalidarea emo\u021biilor: \u201cE so\u021bul ei, de ce s\u0103-i fie fric\u0103?\u201d<\/li><li>Blamarea victimei: \u201ce prea sensibil\u0103\u201d, \u201co femeie \u00een toat\u0103 firea \u0219tie s\u0103 treac\u0103 peste\u201d = Este vina ei c\u0103 nu este suficient de matur\u0103 \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 ierte abuzul<\/li><li>Minimalizarea abuzului: \u201cse ceart\u0103 sau se&#8230; \u00eempung\u201d, \u201cfiecare ceart\u0103\u201d<\/li><li>Prioritizarea rela\u021biei peste siguran\u021ba victimei: \u201eDac\u0103 era s\u0103 m\u0103 despart la fiecare ceart\u0103, acum eram la al 20-lea b\u0103rbat.\u201d<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\/\/\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"square d-md-none\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Impact<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Cum afecteaz\u0103 acest discurs victima violen\u021bei?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Violen\u021ba de gen continu\u0103 s\u0103 existe pentru c\u0103 \u00een loc s\u0103 tax\u0103m agresorii continu\u0103m s\u0103 blam\u0103m victimele. Atunci c\u00e2nd familia, prietenii \u0219i cei apropia\u021bi le judec\u0103, supravie\u021buitoarele violen\u021bei <strong>continu\u0103 s\u0103 cread\u0103 c\u0103 este vina lor<\/strong>, ceea ce face mult mai greu pentru ele s\u0103 ias\u0103 din situa\u021biile abuzive.<\/li><li>Presiunea de a prioritiza longevitatea rela\u021biei mai presus de siguran\u021ba personal\u0103 <strong>descurajeaz\u0103 victimele de la c\u0103uta sprijin \u0219i a raporta abuzurile<\/strong>.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\/\/\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"circle d-md-none\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Alternativa<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Care ar fi fost reac\u021bia potrivit\u0103?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mama Mariei ar fi putut opri violen\u021ba dac\u0103 ar fi ales:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>S\u0103 prioritizeze siguran\u021ba \u0219i s\u0103n\u0103tatea Mariei \u00een loc sa creeze presiune pentru a p\u0103stra rela\u021bia<\/li><li>S\u0103 recunoasc\u0103 actul de violen\u021b\u0103 \u00een loc s\u0103 \u00eel minimalizeze, reduc\u00e2ndu-l la o simpl\u0103 ceart\u0103<\/li><li>S\u0103 ofere Mariei sus\u021binerea de care are nevoie: s-o asculte f\u0103r\u0103 s-o critice pentru felul \u00een care a resim\u021bit abuzul, s\u0103-i pun\u0103 la dispozi\u021bie un loc \u00een care s\u0103 plece \u00een caz c\u0103 are nevoie de timp \u0219i spa\u021biu de vindecare.<\/li><\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Stereotipuri Ce stereotipuri sunt \u00een joc? Invalidarea emo\u021biilor: \u201cE so\u021bul ei, de ce s\u0103-i fie fric\u0103?\u201d Blamarea victimei: \u201ce prea sensibil\u0103\u201d, \u201co femeie \u00een toat\u0103 firea \u0219tie s\u0103 treac\u0103 peste\u201d = Este vina ei c\u0103 nu este suficient de matur\u0103 \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 ierte abuzul Minimalizarea abuzului: \u201cse ceart\u0103 sau se&#8230; \u00eempung\u201d, \u201cfiecare ceart\u0103\u201d Prioritizarea rela\u021biei&#8230; <a class=\"view-article\" href=\"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/mama-mariei\/\"><\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"template-text.php","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-289","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/289","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=289"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/289\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":415,"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/289\/revisions\/415"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=289"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}