View Article{"id":285,"date":"2022-07-25T16:34:48","date_gmt":"2022-07-25T16:34:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/?page_id=285"},"modified":"2022-08-07T06:00:12","modified_gmt":"2022-08-07T06:00:12","slug":"tatal-lui-mihai","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/tatal-lui-mihai\/","title":{"rendered":"Tat\u0103l lui Mihai"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"circle d-md-none\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Stereotipuri<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ce stereotipuri sunt \u00een joc?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Apelul la istoric: \u201cEu nu l-am v\u0103zut niciodat\u0103 s\u0103 se enerveze\u201d<\/li><li>Apelul la caracter \u0219i educa\u021bie: \u201cE un b\u0103iat bun\u201d, \u201cA primit educa\u021bie acas\u0103\u201d<\/li><li>Blamarea victimei: \u201c\u0218i ea ce face?\u201d = plasarea responsabilit\u0103\u021bii pe victim\u0103 s\u0103 ierte abuzul pentru a p\u0103stra rela\u021bia<\/li><li>Dezicerea de responsabilitate: \u201clucrurile astea se rezolv\u0103 \u00een primul r\u00e2nd \u00een familie\u201d<\/li><li>Eroarea logic\u0103 de tip slippery slope: \u201cDac\u0103 facem dintr-un b\u0103iat bun un monstru unde se ajunge?\u201d = dac\u0103 tax\u0103m acest abuz, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 vom ajunge s\u0103 tax\u0103m \u0219i acte care nu constituie deloc abuzuri.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\/\/\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"square d-md-none\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Impact<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Cum afecteaz\u0103 acest discurs victima violen\u021bei?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>C\u00e2nd discursul apropia\u021bilor centreaz\u0103 agresorul \u0219i consecin\u021bele pe care le va suferi acesta, <strong>victima se va sim\u021bi la r\u00e2ndul ei ca un agresor pentru c\u0103 \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 se apere<\/strong>.<\/li><li>Familiile care insist\u0103 c\u0103 medierea este \u00eentotdeauna solu\u021bia, \u0219i c\u0103 p\u0103strarea rela\u021biei este prioritar\u0103, <strong>descurajeaz\u0103 victimele de la a raporta abuzurile<\/strong> \u0219i a c\u0103uta s\u0103 se protejeze.<\/li><li>Stereotipul conform c\u0103ruia violen\u021ba de gen este o problem\u0103 privat\u0103, care se rezolv\u0103 \u00een familie, <strong>face victimele s\u0103 se simt\u0103 izolate \u0219i lipsite de ajutor<\/strong> tocmai de la cei care au cea mai mult\u0103 putere s\u0103 le ofere sus\u021binere.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\/\/\/<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"circle d-md-none\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Alternativa<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Care ar fi fost reac\u021bia potrivit\u0103?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tat\u0103l lui Mihai ar fi putut opri violen\u021ba dac\u0103 ar fi ales:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>S\u0103 recunoasc\u0103 actul violent al lui Mihai f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 \u00eei caute scuze<\/li><li>S\u0103 centreze impactul asupra Mariei \u0219i nu consecin\u021bele asupra lui Mihai<\/li><li>S\u0103 ofere Mariei sus\u021binerea moral\u0103 de care are nevoie<\/li><li>S\u0103 admit\u0103 c\u0103 educa\u021bia nu exclude violen\u021ba de gen \u0219i c\u0103 aceasta este prezent\u0103 \u00een toate categoriile sociale. Oricine poate fi un agresor, indiferent de gen, v\u00e2rst\u0103, mediul \u00een care a crescut \u0219i nivelul de educa\u021bie.<\/li><\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Stereotipuri Ce stereotipuri sunt \u00een joc? Apelul la istoric: \u201cEu nu l-am v\u0103zut niciodat\u0103 s\u0103 se enerveze\u201d Apelul la caracter \u0219i educa\u021bie: \u201cE un b\u0103iat bun\u201d, \u201cA primit educa\u021bie acas\u0103\u201d Blamarea victimei: \u201c\u0218i ea ce face?\u201d = plasarea responsabilit\u0103\u021bii pe victim\u0103 s\u0103 ierte abuzul pentru a p\u0103stra rela\u021bia Dezicerea de responsabilitate: \u201clucrurile astea se rezolv\u0103&#8230; <a class=\"view-article\" href=\"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/tatal-lui-mihai\/\"><\/a>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"template-text.php","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-285","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/285","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=285"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/285\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":406,"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/285\/revisions\/406"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/centrulfilia.ro\/vdg\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=285"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}